The HAPPINESS flow-chart

There are no pre-requisites for this, other than an open mind.......(... drum roll..... ) Life Purpose -> Emotion -> Motion -> Growth -> Fulfilment -> HAPPINESS

Life Purpose: The more powerful and clear your life purpose, the more motivation you will start to generate. The clearer picture you create of this purpose (in your mind), the more focused your subconscious mind on achieving the result. Your subconscious mind actually work 24/7 to provide you with whatever you focus on most. Thus, the clearer your picture, the less confusion there is about what you really want. So don't picture rain clouds if you wan sunshine.

Emotion: Now emotion is generated by the reasons that you have for wanting you special purpose. If you have extremely compelling reasons for achieving a particular life purpose, you will build up much greater motivation or emotional energy. Great reasons equal great motivation.

Motion: Making things RIGHT!! (Nick).It is right and potent combinaton to have both Nike & Adidas together in this by having in our mind- Just Do It & Impossible is Nothing. Clear mindset with purpose leads us to the right path and motion.

Growth: Growth is not something that is good to experience or great once in awhile. It is actually something that we absolutely must have to feel joy in life. In the plant world, I am sure that you know what happens to a plant that stops growing; It starts to die. Sorry to sound melodramatic, but I wanted to highlight the point If yu do nt have a sense that you are growing in life- spiritually, physically, mentally or emotionally, the chances are that you feel as through there is something missing n your life or that "something just not right".

Fulfilment: Now get to the end. One of the principles results that we are seeking in life whether it is consciously or unconsciously is a sense that we are living a life of purpose and meaning. A feeling that we are moving forward, that we are becoming better people, we are doing what we need to do connect most fuly with ourselves and all of those people around us. It is fulfilment that will create that smile on your face or sense a deep inner calm.

To the end, I just want to share a little definition of happiness. Everyone have their own 'DEFINITION' on Happiness. What's yours? My comment box is open for all, let's share ideas on this. As illustrated by Aristotle: 'Man is goal seeking animal. His life only has meaning if he reaching out and striving for his goals'.

I knew it sounds crazy in middle of morning!

I find myself struggling with words this morning, trying to express how I feel. I'm missing someone. I'm missing the little things we talk or chat. doink doink ..

nvm heading to bed.. Nitez...

(for the one who always think i tease/bully her)

~Rain~

Peeps..!! Another day-raining like cats and dogs.. Got nth to do while waiting for the rain to STOP!! at the same time, singing *rain rain go away, come again another day* wtf!!! and guess what ??? the rain getting much more heavier than before -.-

alright.. i just finished looking at muh stuff/work arr and is... ok! phew,FINALLY.. go on! i've damn lots of ideas running now. OH SHIT!!!!! I missed out the Global Peace Festival!! Nevermind.. To ease myself, I'm juz gonna tell myself: "Yeeee... Raining la... How to go?" Tatz shldn't be the way but can't help! Tomolo LOoRrr... Must Go!!

Showered with Good News & Bad One's!! @lways!!! Good thing, I am absolutely free on weekends! No date! No Outing! No entertainment! NTH !!! so.. DATE me peeps!!! (sounds absolutely desperate for A date!). I am suppose to be heading down to Singapore @gain! What the heck !!! YES!!!! Singapore babes... To meet up HELLO KITTY!!

This one? ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!! This one BETTER

GOODBYE KITTY c/t HELLO KITTY

But.. Very unfortunate.. that's not the HQ, and and and now.. dunno wanna cancel or not! coz i've promised rit kor kor, cherry, vimal, kane.. and unofficial confirmations -.- that NICK is coming down to JB & Singapore!! *scratching d head* haiz.. most probably also NO ler.. *sob* *sob* Sorry Guys!! Haiz.. Reconfirm tonite! Rain stops~~ TIme to go!! 2TBC : To Be Continue & To Be Confirm. Ciaoww!

Sushi Days Out!!!

Time now 12:44am. Cooling nite, after raining like cats and dogs for whole day long.. No cool plans .. Nothing.. Staying at home watching astro, friendstering, msn chatting with dear hamster , Julius, a new fren:Sin Teng & Cherry. Each and every was talking about different topics.. that makes my day, a colourful day..

Whole day was crapped. Bz-ing for the coming exhibition. Now i am wondering, Are We gonna make it? Cross our fingers .. we do! One man show which made me fully fucked up sometimes.. Lone-ranger?Perhaps!! Kind of heavy. I am so tired! Nonetheless, no choice... AGAIN!!! Mid valley. In a week time, i wonder how many times i appeared in Mid Valley. Kinda bored man!!

yesterday mv, today mv. Is just that yesterday went there for movie. Fu yoh.. Watched Eagle-Eye.Damn cun.. just like all the others told me, nice !! good!! geng !! bla bla bla. .... the story goes on...

After getting what's supposed to be done, i am so freaking bored.. looking at the time, it was just 4pm. OMG! So slow... how the hell i am gonna passed the time... reasons? i got date with my bro and mom .. Sushi days out! Bonanza dey... BUT... our appointment is 7pm. -.- ''' doink doink

So so. went to Borders @The Gardens, thinking of getting latest mags to kill the time. And here it goes, Passions, Prestige, KLue, Tatlers, and some others .. cant remember the name.. to read! Impress with the contents.. pictures,the highlights, the people..they are just simply.. GORGEOUS... FANTASTIC! And these got nth to do with me.. What captured my attention was the big book which compiled everything about toys!! FOOO YOH ... the price lagi cantik. Worth or not? No idea ler. Finish with all the mags, it was just 5pm and thus, decided to move on to MPH. As i walked towards the entrance, straight forward, would be the law section. Sigh. The latest edition gave rise to a simplified to me. I am way far behind. I know, i still managed to catch up if i want to! Another hour gone!

I then drove to KL Sentral to meet my bro and mum there for sushi.. Raining like dogs and cats... I am unable to get down of the car.. since there is still time, I sat inside the car, doing nothing and worst thing is, u know human loves to think.. think of nonsense. devil is here again questioning the angel. Law or Business? Choose 1.. Debate goes on.. till the time for sushi. argh!!! nvm. come back to this later~~

Met up with my mom and bro and headed to Sooka KL Sentral - new complex opposite kl sentral, hunting for sushi king . Jeng jeng jeng.. Managed to took some of the pics..

after sushi.. apa lagi.. pay money la.. introducing our boss of the day! (drums beating....) Mr Chris Tan... That's the end of the nite, we headed home and here I am.. Msn chatting, blogging and NOW we are back to the argument between the angel and devil.. Law or Business? any suggestion peeps?? What's next??

*Highlights*

currently i am chatting with yenny & my long lost bro:fadhir. my bro suggested to add in some uncover stories such as rumours and scandals. hoho.. a new stories coming to your way! special thanks to Fadhir and brought to you by Nick. Special Combo with headlines, keh poh keh poh news from Singapore & Malaysia.. dun play play ar... Bro Fadhir & Me @ Singapore: Good Old Days

The night is absolutely full of wonders & surprises .. Oops!!! It should be morning tho.. Good Morning People... Time now is 4:15am and i am still here.. -.- bringing u all the latest highlights. OMFG!!! I want sleep!!! I better crawl to bed now. i definately become zombie as i've forgotten, I gotto fetch my bro at 7am later.. chiowwww.....

Muh Saturday

Saturday.. What a boring saturday.. The whole day.. AGAIN!!!! I've been sleeping.. Just like BaBi... Still feeling unwell.. an excuse? well well.. u decide.!

Nth special... only received sms from Sue Ling, and calls from Babi Kelly & April... Both also kacau me pigging. -.- ''' . Nonetheless, i am happy to received calls and sms from u guys.. at least i know, there are people who still will suddenly think of nicky here.. doink! doink!

the night begins after dinner... all of the sudden.. my dad asks me out for a movie.. fuyoh! yes! My Dad-Mr.Tan invited me to join him for a movie. Hoo- Huh of the year (tai kin see).. hmm before i say yes, i was thinking.. must be something one, how come so good suddenly ask me go for movie. too bad. mum doesn't wanna go..

We went to Times Square and watched the movie - Fury. A Thai movie which is talking about The consciousness of each "special child" has a unique ability or skill inside since birth. It is called a "gift". A special child like "Zen" (Jija Yanin), whose mother "Sin" (Som Amara) is in the final stages of leukemia, could never have known that trying to exercise the rights of her mother will lead her mother and herself into an unknown world. Because her mother used to be an important woman of Number-8 (Off Pongpat), the leader of the most powerful and terrifying Mafia gang in Thailand. Consequently, her journey is a key factor leading to the confrontation between Number-8, of the Thai Mafia gang, and Masashi (Hiroshi Abe), a key member of Japanese Yakuza, who tries to protect Zen and her mother. It seems that the only way Zen has is to use her fighting gift to protect her mother. Overall , i think it is a good movie if u guys love action movies.

D' Movie Tickets

after movie, we went old town..as usual.. Xi Mut Tea & my dad had his old time favourite... Nan Yang Kopi O. Oh yes.. not forgotten the Egg Toast with honey.. Perfect combination.. End of this.

One thing i am fucking dissatisfied. I just hate the way of services provided now in Old Town Taman Midah. One year ago, the services compared to now.. it is hell lots of different.Now before u even finish ordered, they just walked off. The other thing is, the way they passed you the knife and fork, they just threw on the table and walked off just like that! What the fuck? All these while I've been old town supporter, but now, i guess, i have to reconsider of going there. Using foreign worker.. this is the disadvantages. I dun care where u from.. Vietnam, Bangla, India, if so unhappy, just fucked off back to your damn bloody country. Damn pissed off! This is the difference of services: before and after estabishment. Standing in the point of the company, they might not know about this, but I guess, they should do something on this. Even companies like KFC, Pizza Hut, Ayamas, have champ check on their outlets to maintain, better quality of services.

wtf!! seems like my complain is much more longer.. time now is 2.10am and I am still having a good chatwith Diana.. a friend from jkt-indonesia. sharing of ideas,things about her business and songs by Jay Chau. *aiks* aiks* I glad to have you as friends ya and looking forward meeting in Indonesia.. permisi..perkenalkan kawan baru gua.. Friend of the day:- Diana. p/s:mohon ampun ya.. curi curi ambil dari friendster.

At the same time.. i am sms-ing with kelly. Pity her, suffering inside the bus on the way back from Thai now. hoho.. lots of complaints i heard from her.. *let me imagine her situation now*.. at 1st wanna pee.. but no place to, then half of the bus stuffed with banglas causing difficulties in breathing, hmm and later on air-cond was switched off! Ok.. thats is the scenario and it is so.... TORTURING.. that's y.. she is so du lan to the max! wakaka.. sorry wey nick wanna help u.. but tak terdaya coz u are so far away .. i am waiting and looking forward to hear from you! must be lots of interesting stories.. ish ish..

hmm.. almost 3am now. i am still chatting and i am going to off from blogging.. the new day has come. i am looking forward and see, what's up next hours of muh SUNDAY this week. Cheers!!

hola.. finally nick declared himself s.i.c.k!! the last in the family to declare this.. been sleeping the whole day.. maybe emotionally broke down the last few days. went through lots of things. phew!!

well well.. friend of the day...Tameem from Dubai. woo hoo.. Dubai... I AM COMING in December!!!!

nite time, went out yam cha with alex lim. he was so excited sharing his 1st day work as "event co-ordinator", with a big big smile and quite or number of positive words/action came out from him. *scratching my head* thinking, this fella something wrong!! Unusual alex i known. Until he shared me the whole story, OMG.. we were laughing like hell. laugh because i find his way of expressing it, damn funny. on the work, i got no comment la.. but i like the way he talk.. I've took a picture of him. See!!

for alex: actually we decide what we wanna do. yes! maybe there are difference in terms of family restrictions but always remember we have a CHOICE! This choice is the one determine who we are. if you want people around you to change their perception on you, what u have to do is to start with a CHANGE. Change from attitude, characteristic. Future is in our hands. what we need is: COMMITMENT!. Blame, anger, frustration, being negative is not gonna HELP! Is not gonna help. Life is a game. If you play it right, in a positive way.. then the result would be positive, There is no definate, but at least chances is there. I hope this little humble opinion would help you and others.

for carol: i wont know if you see this or not but doesn't matter. i know there've been dissapointment and sadness in the past days. i dunno what else i can say. just hoping that, things will be better for u. time will heal. what you have to do is to focus on your current important stuffs.. something if is yours, then it will be yours!! never let dissapointment come again. LIVE with no regrets. cheers ya.. :)

for nicole: today is your operation day. i prayed and hope you will get well soon after this operation. tho, to you i am a bad guy, nonetheless, as far as i am concerned, i hope you will move on with happy and healthy life.. There are better guys out there..

for yenny: i am really sorry as i've been saying for so long that i'll find you yam cha/hang out together but still yet to make it happen. i would say, the timing is not right yet. anyway i've noted it and stored in my head memory.. i will be looking forward the day we hang out together ya... hiks hiks... dun sad ya :)

for nick chong/calvin: thanks for the words of encouragement and concern. I am ok now! Ready to go! We gonna make things right!! do take care and see you guys around soon. cheers.

it is 2am now.. i guess that's all for the day..is time to log off.. a brand new day is about to begin. let's welcome the day with a bright smile and live it to the max. cheers.. Nitez!! oops.. should be good morning bro's & sis... : )