Monday, October 6, 2008

Bad Guy!

Haiz.. I came across someone's blog. Tho I do not know how to read chinese, but someone told me a bit of the content. And I guess the whole thing sure something bad of me.. always in relationship, guys are the bad one in the eyes of third party. haiz.. after looking at the comments.. lagi la.. true.. maybe i don't deserve her love, bla bla bla.. but as third party, they never think whether they have any rights to comment. They always forget to put themselves in the shoes i.e in the same situation, but only good in slipping their own thoughts, condemning as if they are perfect, they never failed in their relationships. I don't blame the girls having this kind of thinking.. but I never agree on comments by guys... For me, this kind of people is just trying to get credits.. Talk Cock!! Prove me if you are that good or else just fuck off. No one's perfect even there is, chances is.. would it be U?.. sigh.. Anyhow, I would still think, Am I That Bad? Maybe we shouldn't start at the beginning. I am Bad Guy! Anyway, i wish you the best. Hope you will find someone better than me, who love you more than I do. Also get well soon .. God bless you..

2 comments:

KELLY said...

I felt a lil offended when i read this post of yours. That doesn't mean that I'd been through a threesome relationship or something. Always in a relationship is NOT something bad. You break off with someone and get together with another one is not because you're flirty or something, but its because : YOU HAVENT FOUND THE RIGHT ONE AND YOU'RE WORKING THROUGH IT TO GET A RIGHT ONE. I see no harm in this. alright. You might hurt your another half. But how? since both of you cant get together, what for continue this relationship? as days goes by, it will bring more and more sorrows to the relationship only.

Third party HAS the right to comment. As long you're a human being, YOU HAVE THE RIGHT! Sometime, we gotta think from the third-party side too. Sometime they doesn't want to end this way as well. I have a friend who are in threesome relationship. He always tell me how he felt. That is why I roughly knows how he feel deep inside. One more thing. PLEASE don't always say you doesn't deserve her love or something. You're good enough to be good :) Trust me. I'm just talking from my point of view. If I ever offended you, I sincerely aplogise. Take care =)

PS: Human are good in talkings. But when problem comes, they tent to hide themself

Anonymous said...

Blames always on guys whenever there is failure in relationship. Girls tend to be more emotional at the beginning but after some time, they will be ok.

So at this moment, you have to take it easily as bad guy. whether you are a bad guy or not, people can tell and i tell people you are Not!